Tips on Dating

 Finding someone to date isn't always easy. Here are some tips I think would be helpful in the dating world.

  • Be honest and clear.

State your intentions as soon as possible. Whether you're into casual dating or you're looking for something serious- let the person you're talking to know. If not, you're going to try decipher what texts mean like the confused math lady meme.

Source:https://www.reddit.com/r/MemeRestoration/comments/ejcvd3/confused_math_lady_4080x2663px/

  • Don't expect to find the right one quickly. 

There's going to be more bad than good dates. It's good to take it date by date and build some patience. The right one will find you.

  • Be open to online dating.

Online dating can be weird and almost dehumanizing. Nonetheless, it's worth a shot. Dating is a numbers game and dating sites will increase your chances at finding someone. At the very least, online dating will allow you to learn what qualities to NOT look for in a person.

  • Know your worth.

Personally, when I was in the dating world I was stuck. I felt like no one was made for me. I almost even felt like there was something wrong with me. It's important to not think like this. Know your worth. It's okay to be single and feel lonely. Use some of your free time to engage in self care.


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